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    IntelliMen – Challenge #49

    Challenge #49   Don’t start before completing Challenge #48. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Take responsibility for your mistakes and ask for forgiveness. Explanation: “Men don’t make mistakes, they’re just given the wrong information” – this is the mindset of many men. The truth is that male pride does not allow us […]

    take responsibility,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #51

      Challenge #51   Don’t start before completing Challenge #50. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Understand how your decisions are influenced, and how to be more alert to these influences. Explanation: Decisions determine our destiny, but you already knew this. But what if we’re not in control of them? What […]

    with regard to your life,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #50

    Challenge #50   Don’t start before completing Challenge #49. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Hang out with your official partner and enjoy an activity together.   Explanation: One of the greatest problems of men is that they isolate themselves. Either they have no friends or they have only superficial ones, who […]

    do something you like,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #52

            Challenge #52   Don’t start before completing Challenge #51. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Organize a men-only get together where you can explain how the IntelliMen Project has helped you, and motivate them to do it themselves. Explanation: Invite friends over to watching a game. Go […]

    the final challenges,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #53

    Challenge #53   Don’t start before completing Challenge #52. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Verify that all 52 challenges are complete… all of them.   Explanation: Did you think you could slip through without completing all the challenges? Sorry. Desculpe. Lo siento. You wouldn’t be an IntelliMan if you didn’t finish […]

    become an IntelliMan,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #48

    Men. Intelligent. ™ CHALLENGE #48 Don’t start before completing Challenge #47. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Get revenge on the evil that made you suffer by doing what’s good. Explanation: Few people know why I decided to take on the challenge of helping couples bullet-proof their marriages, or of helping singles […]

    greatest disappointments,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #47

    Men. Intelligent. ™ CHALLENGE#47 Don’t start before completing Challenge #46. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge:  Porn-proof yourself by block any and all access to it. Explanation: Last week’s challenge taught us that pornography is kryptonite for men. Young men, adult men, elderly men, married or single, all have succumbed to sex offered on the internet. That’s […]

    control yourself,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #46

    Men. Intelligent. ™ CHALLENGE #46 Don’t start before completing Challenge #45. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Watch the video “Porn on the brain.” (Warning: this video may not be appropriate for the under-14-year-olds, parental guidance is advised. If you are 14 or younger, speak to your parents about this […]

    the first generation,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #45

    Men. Intelligent. ™ CHALLENGE #45 Don’t start before completing Challenge #44. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Learn to control your anger and use it to your advantage.   Explanation: I once saw a movie where an ex-inmate was talking to a young man starting out in crime. “Ten seconds. Because […]

    A true IntelliMan,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #44

    Men. Intelligent. ™ CHALLENGE #44 Don’t start before completing Challenge #43. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Go over challenges 27-43; get caught up with the project, and complete this week’s reading. Explanation: Another moment for reflection has come. We are only eight challenges away from the conclusion of this project. The last […]

    valuable lessons,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #43

    Men. Intelligent. ™ CHALLENGE #43 Don’t start before completing Challenge #42. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Show generosity by making three generous gestures this week.   Explanation: Who is more generous men or women? By an overwhelming majority, without a doubt, women are more. When you see a group […]

    bigger than money,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #42

    Men. Intelligent. ™ CHALLENGE#42 Don’t start before completing Challenge #41. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Don’t allow yourself to use certain negative words. Explanation: Horses are stronger than men, but men control horses by placing a simple bit in their mouths. Words are the same. Our mouths can make us […]

    thoughts and actions,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #41

    Men. Intelligent. ™ CHALLENGE #41 Don’t start before completing Challenge #40. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Offer help to a man who needs it. Explanation: Consider this challenge an extension of the last, where you asked for help. This time you’re going to invert things: offer help to a friend, family member or […]

    improve others,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #40

    Men. Intelligent. ™ CHALLENGE #40 Don’t start before completing Challenge #39. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Get help. Explanation: How can something so simple be so challenging to men? The sad truth is that most men don’t seek out help, or take so long to get help that many […]

    seek help,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #39

    Men. Intelligent. ™   CHALLENGE #39 Don’t start before completing Challenge #38. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Plan-out your day the night before.   Explanation: This is a small trick that successful men practice: they start the day full of energy with their eye on the prize. They know […]

    an important question,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #38

    Men. Intelligent. ™   CHALLENGE #38 Don’t begin this until you have concluded Challenge #37. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Make a 21-day Fast of Daniel   Explanation: A while back, Mark Zuckerberg, founder and CEO of Facebook, announced his new annual challenge: get to know someone outside […]

    Fast of Daniel,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #37

    Men. Intelligent. ™   CHALLENGE #37 Don’t start before completing Challenge #36. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Learn to do what is right, whether you feel like it or not.   Explanation: One of the greatest discoveries about intelligent faith is that you don’t need to feel like doing what’s […]

    lack of motivation,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #36

    Men. Intelligent. ™ CHALLENGE #36 Don’t start before completing Challenge #35. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Surprise the woman you love.   Explanation: Whether you’re married, widowed, single or too young to be in a relationship, every man has a special woman in his life. A wife, mother, sister, daughter, or […]

    dream trip,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #35

    Men. Intelligent. ™     CHALLENGE #35 Don’t start before completing Challenge #34. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Learn the truth about time and how to respect it.   Explanation: Let’s expand on what we started in Challenge #33 and explore the subject of time in greater depth. Reflect on […]

    a result of what you learned,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #34

    Men. Intelligent. ™   CHALLENGE #34 Don’t start before completing Challenge #33. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Make extra money in an interesting way.   Explanation: An IntelliMan is resourceful, inventive, and capable. He always finds a creative way to solve problems. That’s why you’ll never find a poor IntelliMan, […]

    a fast return,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #33

    Men. Intelligent. ™ CHALLENGE #33 Don’t start before completing Challenge #32. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Be punctual with all your commitments this week (and the week after, and always).   Explanation: Punctuality is a characteristic of successful people. Show me a successful person and I’ll show you someone who […]

    your day-to-day life,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #32

    Men. Intelligent. ™     CHALLENGE #32 Don’t start before completing Challenge #31. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Are you too in touch or too out of touch with your emotions? Regulate them.   Explanation: What’s worse than an emotional woman? An emotional man. There is a reason why […]

    emotionally intelligent,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #31

    Men. Intelligent. ™   CHALLENGE #31 Don’t start before completing Challenge #30. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Identify a healthy weight and adjust your eating habits and physical activity to reach it.   Explanation: If you have continued working on challenge #11, you have exercised at least three times […]

    improve your eating habits,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #30

    Men. Intelligent. ™   CHALLENGE #30 Don’t start before completing Challenge #29. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Use others negativity in regards to you as fuel to get what you want.   Explanation: Perhaps you already know the story of the real Carl Brashear, the first black man […]

    identify a dream,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #29

    Men. Intelligent. ™   CHALLENGE #29 Don’t start before completing Challenge #28. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Read an edifying book in approximately 30 days.   Explanation: Meditate on this proverb: A wise man is strong, yes, a man of knowledge increases strength. (Proverbs 24:5) Wisdom and knowledge are worth more […]

    edifying book,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #28

    Men. Intelligent. ™   CHALLENGE #28 Don’t start before completing Challenge #27. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Solve an interesting problem – whether it’s yours or someone else’s. Explanation: Men are problem-solvers. IntelliMen are specialists in solving problems. When God created man He gave him tasks. Rule over the animals […]

    intelligent solutions,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #27

    Men. Intelligent. ™   CHALLENGE #27 Don’t start before completing Challenge #26. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Finish a project that you abandoned.   Explanation: One of the greatest things that a man has is his word. If you give your word to someone, you should honour it. And […]

    lack of self-confidence,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #26

    Men. Intelligent.™ CHALLENGE #26 Don’t start before completing Challenge #25. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Review all the challenges up to this point, get up to date with the project and promote IntelliMen.   Explanation: We’ve reached another milestone, and it’s time to reflect on the project, which […]

    motivate others,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #24

    Men. Intelligent.™   CHALLENGE #24 Don’t start before completing Challenge #23. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Learn to say “yes” and “no” more courageously.   Explanation: All of us do this now and then (okay let’s be straight forward, always.) We say “no” when we should say […]

    believe in oneself,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #23

    Men. Intelligent.™   CHALLENGE #23   Don’t start before completing Challenge #22. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.     Challenge: Adopt a new, good habit.   Explanation: We are so dependent on habits that it is practically impossible to eliminate a bad habit without substituting it with another habit – preferably […]

    different habits,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #22

    Men. Intelligent.™ CHALLENGE #22 Don’t start before completing Challenge #21. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Identify a bad habit and eliminate it.   Explanation: A man is made of habits. More than 90% of what we do every day is out of habit. Almost everything that is […]

    your spiritual life,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #21

    Men. Intelligent.™ CHALLENGE#21 Don’t start before completing Challenge #20 If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Begin every day this week the way King David did.   Explanation: Revered by many even today, King David left numerous examples of how to be an intelligent and successful man (as […]

    speaking to God,

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    Intellimen – Challenge #2

    Men. Intelligent.™   Challenge #2 Do not start before completing Challenge #1   Challenge: Identify three things about yourself that you will improve. Directions: Our project’s aim is to make men better, so you need to identify where you need to start improving as a person. We all need to improve in many ways. But we […]

    your own goals,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #20

    Men. Intelligent.™ CHALLENGE #20 Don’t start before completing Challenge #19. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Identify an area of excellence and develop it.   Explanation: King Solomon said: Do you see a man who excels in his work? He will stand before kings; He will not stand […]

    your area of excellence,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #19

    Men. Intelligent.™   CHALLENGE #19 Don’t start before completing Challenge #18. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Invite your wife/fiancé/girlfriend to do The Love Walk. (If you don’t have a girlfriend, read about what you should do below.)   Explanation: There’s not much to explain about the […]

    a good IntelliMan,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #18

    Men. Intelligent.™   CHALLENGE #18 Don’t start before completing Challenge #17. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Teach your partner a new skill or something useful.   Explanation: An intelligent man understands the power of teaching others. When you teach you share a part of yourself with […]

    communication with your wife,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #17

    Men. Intelligent.™   CHALLENGE #17 Don’t start before completing Challenge #16. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Review all the challenges up to this point, and make sure you are up to date with the project.   Explanation: There have been 16 challenges so far. Those who […]

    IntelliMen Challenge,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #16

    Men. Intelligent.™   CHALLLENGE #16 Don’t start before completing Challenge #15. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Make a pact with your eyes and promise not to lust after women. Explanation: Ok, perhaps this is the hardest challenge yet. Much harder than Challenge #11 — two times […]

    a certain amount of practice,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #15

    Men. Intelligent.™   CHALLENGE #15 Don’t start before completing Challenge #14. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Identify the Almighty’s discipline and accept it. Explanation: An intelligent man believes in God because he understands that only a higher intelligence could have created man and the Universe. He understands […]

    a higher intelligence,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #14

    Men. Intelligent.™ CHALLENGE #14 Don’t start before completing Challenge #13. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Create the discipline of regularly saving a certain amount of money. Explanation: One of the main characteristics of a man is to be a provider. A man fights so that he […]

    financial discipline,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #13

    Men. Intelligent.™ CHALLENGE #13 Don’t start before completing Challenge #12 If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1   Challenge: Learn to be more of a gentlemen and less of a caveman. Explanation: Let’s clarify one thing: men are naturally raw, insensitive and a little harsh. Sensitivity is not their forte. […]

    being a gentleman,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #12

    Men. Intelligent.™   CHALLENGE #12 Don’t start before completing Challenge #11. If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Examine your thoughts and remove the ones that do you no good.   Explanation: We all have an inner voice; a voice that continually speaks to us. Most of the […]

    inner voice,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #11

    Men. Intelligent.™   CHALLENGE #11 Don’t start before completingChallenge #10 If you want to join the IntelliMen, start fromChallenge #1.   Challenge: Get into the habit of exercising for an hour at least three times a week. (Even if you already do this, read this post all the way to the end.) Explanation: An intelligent […]

    a capable person,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #10

    Men. Intelligent.™ CHALLENGE #10 Don’t start before completing Challenge #9 If you want to join the IntelliMen Project, start from Challenge #1. Challenge: Awaken your anger against something wrong, and use it in an intelligent manner to do what is right. Explanation: “If you falter in times of trouble, how small is your strength.”  In other […]

    A real man,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #9

    Men. Intelligent.™   CHALLENGE#9 Don’t start before completing Challenge #8. If you want to join the IntelliMen, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Be bold and courageous for a good cause. Explanation: What’s the bravest thing you’ve ever done? Stop and think for a minute… How did it feel to do what you did? How […]

    for a good cause,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #8

    Men. Intelligent.™ CHALLENGE #8 Don’t start before completing Challenge #7. If you want to join the IntelliMen, start fromChallenge #1.   Challenge: Identify something that’s been dominating you, and begin to dominate it. Explanation: The very first time God spoke to man, one of the instructions he gave Him was “have dominion…” Man was designed […]

    designed by God,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #7

    Men. Intelligent.™ CHALLENGE #7 Don’t start before completingChallenge #6 If you want to join the IntelliMen, start fromChallenge #1.   We are now on the seventh challenge. The curious have fallen by the wayside, the weak have given up, and the puzzled are still trying to figure out Challenge #1. Only the committed and determined […]

    an action plan, an intelligent manner,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #5

    Men. Intelligent.™ Challenge #5 This can be done as you work on completing Challenge #4 If you want to join the IntelliMen, start fromChallenge #1   Challenge: Watch the series of videos called “Man up!” and reflect on your role as a man at home, at work/school, in church and toward yourself. Explanation: We weren’t […]

    families and society,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #6

    Men. Intelligent.™ CHALLENGE #6 Don’t start before completing Challenge #5. If you want to join IntelliMen project, start from Challenge #1.   Challenge: Review what you learned in the first 5 challenges, and share the IntelliMen Project with someone who has not yet joined and encourage him to participate. Explanation: It’s been a month since […]

    IntelliMen Project,

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  • IntelliMen – Challenge #4

    Men. Intelligent.™ CHALLENGE #4 Don’t start before completing Challenge #3 If you want to join the IntelliMen, start from Challenge #1 Challenge: Make time for a family member and do something he or she likes. Explanation: IntelliMen are family men. Recognising the value of family is essential to living well with those near you. However, […]

    family member,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #3

    Men. Intelligent.™ Challenge #3 Don’t start this challenge until you complete Challenge #2 If you want to join the IntelliMen, start from Challenge #1 Challenge: Discovering what you’re best at Explanation: The majority of us hear a lot of negative comments from others. Since childhood we’ve repetitively heard things like “He’s too shy,” “He’s no […]

    IntelliMen Project,

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    IntelliMen – Challenge #1

    Men. Intelligent.™   For starters, you’ll make your decision public and invite someone to start the challenge with you. So, follow the next steps: 1. Tell someone about IntelliMen and invite him to join the group with you. It may be a friend, brother, colleague at work or church, cousin, father, son, etc. This person […]
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