In love, maturity goes beyond age or the number of past relationships; it is the ability to face challenges with wisdom, self-control and a sense of responsibility. Without it, even the strongest attraction can diminish when faced with difficulties.
We can read in 1 Corinthians 13:11, “When I was a child, I spoke as a child, understood as a child, thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” In the context of love, this means moving beyond selfishness, pride and impulsive behaviour.
For couples, maturity is demonstrated in how disagreements are handled. Rather than reacting impulsively or holding grudges, mature partners choose to address issues calmly, seek constructive solutions and prioritise the health of the relationship over the need to “win” an argument.
For singles, contrary to popular belief, maturity isn’t measured by the number of relationships or experiences one has had. Although our culture often normalises and encourages multiple relationships, this only leads to negative baggage – which doesn’t contribute positively to future relationships.
Mature singles take the time to heal from past hurts, know their values and understand what they seek in a partner. This self-awareness helps them avoid rushing into situations that may seem exciting but are ultimately unhealthy.
Would you like to explore the concept of Intelligent Love further? Join us for the Love Therapy seminars every Thursday at 8pm at the Cathedral of Miracles and don’t miss the Love Walk on Saturday, 30 August, at 1pm in Kennington Park. Click here for more details.
