The male mind

Work, work, and work. He’s got to work, got to succeed, got to get that promotion, got to be respected by his colleagues, got to… be a man.

Men are born with the urge to be the head, the leader, the provider, the role model, and the one that knows everything. Yet, some men have a hard time being, one of these.

His identity is connected with his success. Without success, he feels less of a man, not doing what’s expected of him, and, basically, a loser. You hear about some who have had a beautiful family, but committed suicide one day, because his business went bankrupt. Or, you hear about others who became drunkards, living in the pubs day and night, because they had lost their jobs. Fortunately, not all go to these extremes, but the number of men who do is not a small one.

"God has always valued us and it's a
shame that we don't do the same

It is of no use to beg him not to worry about the matters which threaten his position as the leader and head of the family, so why try? So wife, pray for him as much as you can and never, ever compare him to anyone else, as this will make him feel inferior, which is something men avoid at all costs. Ask God to guide him and be part of his life.

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