Every day, moments and opportunities arise where something new gains access to your life. This might be people, experiences, thoughts, or feelings. Some arrive gently, bringing peace and joy. Others force their way in, bringing confusion, pain, or worry. Take a moment to ask yourself: What has entered your life? Has fatigue made even the […]
Money can be unpredictable. One moment everything could be ticking along nicely, and the next, an unexpected expense can throw your plans off track. Sound familiar? That is why August is the month to ‘Bulletproof your Finances’ and it all begins with one essential ingredient: faith. We are often told to save, invest, and plan […]
Honesty is more than just telling the truth; it’s about living and loving without masks. In a relationship, being honest means showing up as your true self, rather than presenting the version you think the other person wants to see. It also involves being willing to hear the truth – even when it is uncomfortable […]
Love that lasts doesn’t stay still; it grows. True, intelligent love is not about finding a “perfect” relationship that never changes – it’s about building one that evolves, matures and improves over time. This growth starts with each individual. For couples, it means continually learning how to be better partners. It involves recognising areas that […]
No relationship is free from mistakes; after all, no one is perfect. This is why forgiveness is such a vital aspect of intelligent love. It’s a crucial ingredient for long-term happiness, as disagreements and miscommunications are part of any close relationship. But holding onto these hurts builds walls instead of bridges. Forgiveness allows couples to […]
When it comes to building intelligent love, empathy is essential. It’s what allows two people to truly understand one another. Empathy means putting yourself in the other person’s shoes, seeing things from their perspective and responding with care – not just reacting. In relationships, conflicts often escalate not because of what happened, but because one […]
It’s impossible to have a successful love life whilst switched on to autopilot mode. Just like in a career, a dream or meaningful goals, a healthy relationship requires dedication – consistent commitment to build, grow and nurture something meaningful. Dedication can be expressed through presence, patience and intentional action. For couples, this means taking time […]
Many people experience pain in love because they act without thinking. There are two kinds of love: one that thinks, and one that simply feels. Unintelligent love is driven by need, emotion, and impulse. It comes from someone who doesn’t reflect or pay attention to warning signs. In contrast, intelligent love is guided by reason, […]
In the book of Revelation, we find a series of powerful messages delivered by the Holy Spirit to seven churches. One of these was addressed to the Church in Smyrna and it’s this particular message that we are focusing on today. “And to the angel of the church in Smyrna write, ‘These things says the First […]
Communication is one of the most important elements of a successful love life. It’s essential, simply because love isn’t just about what you feel – it’s also about how you express those feelings, how you listen, and how you understand one another. Effective communication keeps a couple aligned, helping them to build mutual trust, emotional […]
