Recent research by Internet Matters, which surveyed 1,000 children and teenagers aged 9 to 17, found that 67% of them are using AI apps like ChatGPT and Snapchat’s MyAI to simulate friendships. Alarmingly, 12% admitted they use these apps because they “don’t have anyone else to speak to.”
The report highlights that these features can “heighten risks by blurring the line between human and machine, making it harder for children to recognise that they are interacting with a tool rather than a person.”
From talking chatbots to virtual pets and AI-powered games, these tools provide comfort and companionship for kids who feel isolated. However, while technology can serve as a helpful outlet in moderation, it’s essential to understand that AI, no matter how advanced, cannot replace genuine human connection.
Loneliness among children is on the rise, often fuelled by factors such as digital overload, fragmented families and a lack of community spaces. For some, talking to AI feels easier than navigating the complexities of real friendships – after all, AI never judges, never argues and is always available. But this illusion of companionship can deepen a child’s sense of isolation rather than alleviate it.
Children need more than programmed responses and digital interaction; they require real-life play, face-to-face conversations and the joy of human connection. Social development, emotional understanding and empathy are cultivated through interaction with others, not through algorithms.
Spending time away from screens allows children to explore their creativity, develop problem-solving skills and understand emotions in ways that machines cannot teach. Encouraging kids to participate in group activities, enjoy outdoor play and engage in meaningful conversations is crucial for their emotional and social well-being.
At the Universal Church, we recognise the importance of creating safe and enriching spaces where children and teenagers can grow. That’s why our CBC (Children’s Biblical Centre) offers a welcoming environment led by DBS-checked volunteers. While parents attend selected services and events, children at the CBC benefit from interactive lessons, fun activities and opportunities to build real friendships, all rooted in Biblical values and learning.
We also offer groups such as UTF (Universal Teen Force), dedicated to teens aged 11 to 14, and the VYG (Victory Youth Group) for young adults. These groups offer a range of activities and practical guidance based on Biblical teachings to help them become successful adults.
For more information, please call our 24-hour helpline on 020 7686 6000, send a WhatsApp message on 020 7686 6010 or talk to a pastor at your nearest Universal Church.
Source: https://futurism.com/lonely-children-ai-chatbots
