True, intelligent love requires patience – the ability to wait, endure, and allow time for growth. In a world that glorifies instant results, many people expect relationships to operate in the same way – with quick fixes, instant chemistry and immediate outcomes – but the reality is that lasting love doesn’t follow this pattern.
If you’re in a relationship, it’s essential to recognise that your partner is a work in progress, just as you are. Being patient means giving them the time to grow and overcome their struggles instead of demanding perfection right away. Patience helps prevent small irritations from escalating into unnecessary conflicts and allows space for forgiveness and understanding.
However, it’s also crucial not to confuse patience with tolerance of unacceptable behaviour. While patience allows for change and growth, it should never be used as an excuse to endure harmful actions or situations that violate respect and love.
When it comes to singles, many rush into relationships and compromise on important values because they fear being alone or don’t want to wait. In these instances, patience is especially important. It allows you to invest in your personal growth while waiting for the right person, rather than settling for the wrong one.
The Bible highlights patience as one of the fruits of the Spirit (see Galatians 5:22), showing that it’s not merely a human virtue but a divine quality we are called to cultivate. The Holy Scriptures also teach us that true love “bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things” (1 Corinthians 13:7).
At the Love Walk, patience is practiced in a simple yet powerful manner: by slowing down and walking side by side. This exercise emphasises attentiveness, listening without rushing, and dedicating quality time to the person next to you. For couples, this can deepen their bond; for singles, it can create space for clarity and genuine discovery.
Are you ready for this special event? The time is coming! Join us on Saturday, 30 August, at 1pm in Kennington Park.
