Alphabet of Intelligent Love – N: Nurture

Nurturing

Love is like a garden – if you don’t take care of it, it will wither. Nurturing a relationship means consistently investing time, attention, and care to create an environment where love can flourish and the bond can grow stronger over time.

The Bible reminds us in Galatians 6:9, “…Let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.” In the context of love, this means that consistent acts of care, even if they seem small, will bear fruit in time.

Nurturing is not just about what you give, but how you give it. Genuine care comes from a place of love, not obligation. It’s demonstrated by your willingness to be present during both the easy and challenging moments. It’s in remembering the details that matter to the other person, choosing to encourage rather than criticise, and finding joy in supporting their growth as much as your own.

It also requires patience, because growth doesn’t happen overnight. Just as a plant takes time to bloom, relationships need seasons of investment before the results become visible.

There will be moments when your efforts feel unnoticed or challenges test your commitment. However, nurturing means choosing to keep showing up and believing in the value of the love you’re building. When you do this, you will reap rewards that make all your efforts worthwhile.

Would you like to nurture your relationship or plant the seeds for a future one? Then join us on Saturday, 30 August, at 1pm in Kennington Park for the Love Walk. We look forward to seeing you there!