In a relationship, listening goes far beyond simply hearing the words your partner is saying. It’s easy to nod along while scrolling through your phone or letting your mind wander, but true listening requires patience, empathy, and a genuine willingness to understand before responding.
When you put away distractions, resist the urge to interrupt, and focus on what your partner is truly trying to say, you demonstrate that you value their thoughts, feelings and perspective. When someone feels heard, they also feel respected and loved. Conversely, neglecting to listen can make the other person feel undervalued, leading to misunderstandings, unnecessary conflicts and emotional distance.
The Bible teaches us to be “swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath” (James 1:19). When applied to love, this wise principle helps prevent unnecessary arguments and fosters an atmosphere of peace and understanding.
Attentive listening is vital when getting to know a potential partner. Instead of rushing to share your own story or impress the other person, take the time to understand who they are. Ask open-ended questions, show genuine curiosity, and pay attention to their words, tone, body language, and the values they express during the conversation. This kind of attentive listening can reveal compatibility – or a lack of it – early on.
The Love Walk is the perfect occasion to practice all of this, as you’ll have the time and space to engage without the usual distractions. The thoughtfully prepared questions serve as a guide, encouraging effective communication and helping you explore meaningful topics, creating an environment where active listening flows naturally. This allows you to discover more about the person beside you and deepen your connection.
Don’t miss it! It will be on Saturday, 30 August, at 1pm in Kennington Park.
