In love, nothing truly meaningful happens by accident. Intention is what gives direction, purpose and clarity to our actions. Without it, relationships can drift aimlessly, carried by emotions or circumstances rather than by conscious choices. This is one of the main reasons why many relationships fail today.
Being intentional in love means actively choosing to invest in our relationship every day. It involves deciding to prioritise quality time together, listening attentively, planning for the future, and nurturing both emotional and spiritual growth as a team.
Intentionality can be expressed through simple gestures that many people often overlook, such as giving flowers to your partner or writing a heartfelt note to express appreciation for something they’ve done. However, it’s not just about occasional romantic gestures; it’s especially about consistent, intentional actions that communicate to your partner, “I choose you,” over and over again.
Intention is also crucial for those seeking a relationship. Instead of passively “seeing what happens,” it’s important to be clear about what you’re looking for in a partner, the values that matter to you and the boundaries you won’t compromise. When you date with intention, you’re not just searching for someone to fill a void – you’re seeking a relationship that aligns with your purpose and long-term vision for your life.
The Bible reminds us of the power of intention in Proverbs 21:5: “The plans of the diligent lead surely to plenty, but those of everyone who is hasty, surely to poverty.” In love, this means that taking the time to plan, reflect and act with purpose leads to lasting, fulfilling relationships, while rushing in without direction often leads to disappointment.
The Love Walk is the perfect setting to practice intentional love – to be fully present, engage in heartfelt conversation, and create moments that both of you will carry far beyond that day. Invite your partner (or a potential partner) and join us at Kennington Park on Saturday, 30 August, at 1pm for a memorable afternoon.
