Last July, a tragedy shook Southport when 17-year-old Axel Rudakubana entered the Hart Space studio, where 26 children aged between six to thirteen were enjoying a Taylor Swift–themed dance workshop.
The children were singing, making bracelets, and laughing – completely unaware of the horror that was about to unfold. Rudakubana, wearing a hood, a face mask and armed with a knife he had bought online, attacked the children. Eleven children were stabbed, and three lives were tragically lost: Elsie Dot Stancombe (7), Bebe King (6), and Alice Da Silva Aguiar (9).
The incident left the whole community in shock, and many have struggled with feelings of guilt, fear, and grief. One taxi driver, who unknowingly drove the attacker to the scene has expressed deep regret for not doing more to help the children he saw fleeing.
Gary Poland, explained that he had threatened to call the police when Rudakubana refused to pay, but assumed he had gone inside the building to get money. He later picked up another fare and went home, only calling emergency services about 50 minutes later after hearing the screams from the Hart Space Studio.
Reflecting back, Mr Poland said: “… I should have called the police earlier. In hindsight, I wish I had done, and it’s something I think about every day… Their screams were harrowing. I can still hear them when I think back to that day.”
Tragedies like this remind us that, at some point, we have all carried moments we regret—decisions we wish we could undo. The weight of guilt can feel overwhelming, but there is hope. Whatever your experiences or mistakes, it is possible to release regret and find peace.
Here are four steps to receiving peace:
Think of forgiveness like a cheque: it’s already written and signed, but it’s only useful if you cash it in. God’s forgiveness is available, but you have to believe it and receive it for yourself.
Unforgiveness is like carrying poison in your heart. The Lord’s Prayer reminds us: “And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.” (Matthew 6:12). When you release others, you also release yourself.
Peace isn’t only about receiving forgiveness; it’s also about giving it. If there are people you’ve wronged, approach them with humility. Saying sorry can be a powerful step toward healing for both you and them.
Even after seeking God’s forgiveness and making amends with others, many still struggle to forgive themselves. Let go of self-blame and allow yourself to move forward.
If you’ve been affected by this incident, or if you’re struggling with regrets of your own, support is available.
Reach out to us on our 24-hour helpline on 020 7686 6000, send a WhatsApp message to 020 7686 6010, or visit your local Universal Church for spiritual support and a listening ear.
You don’t have to carry regret alone. Take these steps towards peace today.
