When we hear the word “roots”, most of us picture trees and plants — those hidden parts beneath the soil that provide strength, nourishment, and stability. If the roots are healthy, the tree flourishes. But if they are damaged or unhealthy, the trunk, branches, leaves and fruit begin to suffer.
It’s much the same with us. We, too, have our own “roots” which are unseen yet deeply embedded within us. They’re formed over the course of our lives and have a powerful influence on how we think, feel and behave.
Painful experiences, past traumas, frustrations, or unhealthy relationships can all take root within us. Left untreated, these hidden issues start to show on the surface — in our emotions, reactions and relationships. Just like a tree that needs care from the roots up, anyone who wants to change from the inside out must be willing to look beyond the surface and confront what’s really going on.
With this in mind, we have a special purpose: Cutting Off Bad Roots, a series held during the Love Therapy Seminars. The aim is to help each person identify and remove what has been harming their emotional and spiritual wellbeing.
Many people seek counselling or therapy, and that’s an important step. But often they reach a point where they understand the problem, but cannot seem to overcome it. That’s because the deepest roots are not just emotional or phycological — they’re spiritual. Only God can reach the innermost parts of a person and remove what no human effort can.
This process takes courage and honesty. Some people think that trimming the branches or leaves is enough, but if the problem lies in the root, that’s where the healing must begin and that’s exactly what this purpose is all about, digging deep to pull out what’s been holding you back from happiness, peace and becoming your best self.
These roots can even run through generations. Just as physical traits are passed down through DNA, certain behaviours, attitudes or emotional patterns can also be inherited. You may find yourself repeating your parents’ mistakes or struggling with the same issues they faced.
Emotional scars and deep-seated patterns are not easy to overcome by sheer effort alone. That’s why faith plays such a vital role. With the help of the Holy Spirit, a person gains the strength, wisdom and direction needed to recognise these inner roots and transform them for good.
Here’s a simple guide to begin this process:
Step 1: Identify the Problem
The first step is to be honest with yourself. A lot of people prefer to ignore their weaknesses, but real change only begins when you face the truth head-on.
Step 2: Discover the Origin
Once you have identified what’s wrong, dig deeper. Where does it come from? Many repeat the same mistakes because they never find the real source — whether it’s jealousy, fear, anger or insecurity. Understanding the “why” is key to breaking the cycle.
Step 3: Seek the Help of the Holy Spirit
Trying to fix yourself without God’s help can feel like pulling weeds that grow back stronger. Real transformation happens from within and only the Holy Spirit can cut those roots once and for all.
Be part of the Love Therapy Seminar this Thursday at 8pm. You will learn how to overcome what has been holding you back from flourishing in your love life.
Event: The Love Therapy Seminars – Cutting Off Bad Roots
Day and time: Thursday, 13th November at 8pm
Location: The Cathedral of Miracles, Rainbow Theatre, 232 Seven Sisters Road, Finsbury Park, London, N4 3NX (outside London via conference)
