For many people, the search for happiness in their love life feels exhausting. You move from one relationship to another, hoping this time everything will finally make everything fall into place. Yet somehow, you end up back where you started — disappointed, drained and wondering why love feels so hard.
It’s easy to lose your way. Some people chase happiness through status, money, social media validation or unhealthy relationships. Others remain in toxic situations, thinking love is meant to hurt. In the end, none of these paths deliver what they promise. Instead, they leave frustrated, lonely, and with a sense that time has been wasted.
But what if real happiness in love isn’t as complicated as we make it?
Often, problems arise when relationships revolve around what I want, what I deserve, or what I’m not getting. This mindset breeds resentment, creating distance and tension between partners.
On the other hand, when we focus on giving, serving and being a positive influence in someone else’s life, something changes — your relationship becomes healthier and more fulfilling rather than a burden.
Jesus taught this very principle — to love without expecting anything in return. By doing so, you take away the power of anger, bitterness and revenge, and replace it with peace.
The Bible reminds us: “Give, and it will be given to you” (Luke 6:38). This applies to relationships as much as it does to any area of life. Instead of asking, “What can I get from my partner?”, try asking, “What can I give?”
Small acts of kindness make a big difference — choosing patience over arguments, understanding over control, and generosity over pride.
The world often offers a version of happiness that’s driven by emotions but it’s short-lived. When circumstances change, that happiness disappears. God offers something different: a joy that remains even in difficult moments.
As written in Nehemiah 8:10, “The joy of the Lord is your strength.” This joy doesn’t fade when relationships are tested. Instead, it gives strength, courage and clarity to face challenges with wisdom.
If your love life feels stuck, maybe it’s time to change direction. Following God’s guidance leads to a better path — one filled with peace and genuine happiness.
That’s why we invite you to Join us on Thursday, 1st January 2026, for the first Love Therapy Seminar of the year, and take a step towards a healthier, happier love life.
Event: The Love Therapy Seminar
Day and time: Thursday, 1st January at 8pm
Location: The Cathedral of Miracles, Rainbow Theatre, 232 Seven Sisters Road, Finsbury Park, London, N4 3NX (outside London via conference)
