In a world full of different opinions and beliefs, many things are labelled as “truth.” However, there’s only one truth that has the power to truly free us from our problems and that’s God’s truth. This was the focus of last week’s Love Therapy Seminar, led by Bishop James and Helena Marques, where they introduced the 16th Tool of Intelligent Love.
Many of us are familiar with the Bible verse; “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free…” But often, people quote only this part of the scripture and miss the full message. The verse, found in John 8:31-32, begins with Jesus saying, “If you abide in My Word, you are My disciples indeed. Then you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.”
In other words, before the truth can set anyone free, we must first remain in God’s Word. Only then, can we become disciples of Christ and find real freedom.
When it comes to relationships, the truth is essential. As Bishop James put it, “whether dating or married, if you don’t start from the point of truth, the relationship will not work.”
Facing the truth about ourselves can be difficult, as it often exposes parts of us we would rather keep hidden—pride, insecurity, fear, vanity, or even attention-seeking behaviour. But, God can only work in us when we are honest with ourselves.
It’s easy to focus on what your partner is doing wrong, but the real transformation begins when you look inward. A true disciple of Jesus doesn’t simply point fingers. They have the courage to go deep within, examine themselves, face their flaws, and allow God to work within them.
Sometimes, people lie to themselves. They believe in something so strongly that it becomes their truth — even if it’s not the truth. When Jesus spoke to Pilate about the truth, Pilate replied, “What is truth?” (John 18:38). Many people still ask that question today.
However, two things happen when a person lies:
It’s not enough to talk about the truth. You have to live it because that’s the foundation for a lasting relationship.
Two key takeaways are: be honest with those around you and be honest with yourself. If you’re with someone who lies, your life will be filled with doubt and uncertainty. But, when both people commit to absolute honesty, God can work in your relationship.
Have the Tools of Intelligent Love helped you so far? Join us this Thursday as the 17th tool will be revealed. Come and learn how to build a relationship not based not on feelings, but on the wisdom of God.
Event: Love Therapy Seminars
Day and time: Every Thursday at 8pm
Location: The Cathedral of Miracles, Rainbow Theatre, 232 Seven Sisters Road, Finsbury Park, London, N4 3NX (outside London via conference)
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