Love life is one of the few areas where people often disregard the rules they typically apply to other aspects of their lives. It seems to operate with different criteria and a unique modus operandi.
When someone wants to achieve a financial goal, for instance, they usually plan meticulously, evaluate risks and develop strategies. If you plan to invest, you normally study the subject carefully to ensure that it’s legitimate and can produce a financial return.
However, when it comes to relationships, most people don’t take the same precautions. They fail to assess the relationship they are entering; they don’t delve deeply into the background, family, long-term plans or past experiences of the person they are getting to know. It’s 100% feelings and 0% reason.
While love undoubtedly involves emotions, those feelings must be balanced with rational thought. While emotions are essential in specific situations, there are moments when we need to set them aside in favour of reason, so that we can make the right choices and act wisely.
In the heat of passion, many are unable to see flaws or signs of problematic behaviour in a potential partner. As time goes on and those two individuals start living together, reality sets in, and issues like disagreements and incompatibility emerge. As a result, many enter an endless cycle of frustration, convincing themselves they will never be happy in love. Eventually, they end up giving up their pursuit of a happy love life altogether, redirecting their focus to other areas they believe will yield greater return.
However, we are here to say that, regardless of how sceptical you may feel, it is possible to change this situation. At our Love Therapy seminars, we teach the concept of intelligent love – love that is based on conscious choices rather than mere intuition or impulse. Singles learn to prepare themselves before entering a relationship, while those in troubled relationships learn valuable tools to mend what is broken and finally achieve the happiness they desire.
When you learn to love intelligently, you bulletproof yourself against disappointments. No matter how difficult your year has been in terms of love, there is still time to do something that could lead to a blessed and transformed love life. Give intelligent love a chance and join us for the last Love Therapy seminar of the year at the Cathedral of Miracles.
Event: Last Love Therapy Seminar of the Year
Date and Time: Thursday, 26 December at 8pm
Location: Cathedral of Miracles, 232 Seven Sisters Road, London, N4 3NX
