independentemente das circunstâncias, se afastou de Deus, Terapia do Amor,
After 69 years of marriage, on April 27th, the couple Isaac – meat distributor, 91 years old – and Teresa Vatkin – housewife, 89 years old (pictured right) – passed away, with a difference of 40 minutes between the death of one and the other. He had Alzheimer’s. The cause of Teresa’s death has not been revealed.
To a newspaper in the United States, where the couple lived, relatives said they felt better knowing that they stayed side by side until the end. Isaac and his wife were also buried together.
Days before, employees of the hospital unit where they were hospitalized noticed the increase in breathing difficulties in both. As the couple were in separate rooms, they decided to relocate them, putting them in the same room, side by side. After moving, at the request of family members, the two were placed hand in hand. In a short time they did not resist and died.
lasting marriage
A relationship that has survived for decades, just like Isaac and Tereza’s, is what many people are looking for. But this goes beyond just wanting.
In her official blog, writer Cristiane Cardoso explains that one of the first things that God created, right after the creation of man and woman, was marriage. “He knew that in order for both of them to learn to have a relationship with Him, they needed to learn about the marriage relationship first,” she says.
However, just as humans have moved away from God , love relationships have also been increasingly temporary. “People even want to be happy in love. Some seek to do everything right, but unfortunately, not knowing what a relationship really means in their lives, they end up living from relationship to relationship.”
Sacrifices for life
Cristiane points out that, for the sake of life together, we often need to sacrifice our own will to make a relationship work. If you are not willing to let go, then you are not willing to relate to anyone.
Also, another fact that needs to be considered is that no relationship can survive without trust. She is needed at all times, regardless of the circumstances .
Another tip from the writer is to respect your partner. “It means recognizing the space and importance of the other in your life and within the relationship. You have to respect your spouse despite differences of opinion. Each needs the other’s skills to grow as a person and be successful in every way.”
And that’s not enough. Despite many efforts, there is another issue that can determine a lasting relationship: two people will only remain united if they have the same goal in life.
How is your love life and with God? Participate in the Therapy of Love , every Thursday, at the Help Center, and understand how it is possible to have a lasting marriage.
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