{"id":84436,"date":"2018-02-01T09:00:58","date_gmt":"2018-02-01T08:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.uckg.org\/pt\/?p=84436"},"modified":"2023-04-17T15:57:34","modified_gmt":"2023-04-17T14:57:34","slug":"moro-ha-um-ano-com-meu-namorado-e-ele-ainda-nao-se-divorciou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.uckg.org\/pt\/moro-ha-um-ano-com-meu-namorado-e-ele-ainda-nao-se-divorciou\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cMoro h\u00e1 um ano com meu namorado e ele ainda n\u00e3o se divorciou\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

Student \u2013 \u200b\u200bI’ve been living with my boyfriend for a year and he still hasn’t divorced, which causes a lot of fights between us. <\/span>Last month, I found messages from him to other women on my cell phone. <\/span>He says he didn’t cheat on me. <\/span>However, I found out that one of them was his lover. <\/span>I asked him to stop the conversations and delete the contacts, but he refused. <\/span>He changed the password, said he didn’t have to show me anything and blocked me on WhatsApp. <\/span>What do I do?<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Cristiane<\/span><\/span><\/strong> \u00a0\u2013 Student, if you evaluate the question you asked us, probably your “pencil will drop”. <\/span>You will see that what you are doing is stupid. <\/span>If your boyfriend isn’t divorced, he’s still married. <\/span>But worst of all, he is married and has other mistresses besides you. <\/span>You’re playing the wife, the faithful woman who takes care of her husband’s things and waits for him to come home, but in reality, you’re being silly. <\/span>Sorry for the sincerity, but he is using you and has no commitment to you. <\/span>He doesn’t have the character to be in any relationship even with his wife. <\/span>He doesn’t have the profile to be in a marriage and to have a family, because he is with you and <\/span><\/span>with other women<\/span><\/span><\/a> .<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Renato<\/span><\/span><\/strong> \u00a0\u2013 There are men who seem to like to get involved. <\/span>It is similar to the case of a wife who came to us and complained that her husband paid four pensions. <\/span>These child support he had to pay his children could have come before he married her or during their marriage, which is even worse. <\/span>And even knowing this reality, she got involved with him. <\/span>This is what happens to many women. <\/span>They don’t think about what they are doing and get involved with men who are confused, indecisive and with a personal and love life full of problems and issues to be resolved.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Cristiane<\/span><\/span><\/strong> \u00a0\u2013 They are financially independent women, but emotionally slaves.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Renato<\/span><\/span><\/strong> \u00a0\u2013 And you must be one of those women, Aluna. <\/span>You’re living in a mess and you need to realize that you got into a cold one, in a leaky canoe. <\/span>You’re fighting because he blocked you on his cell phone, but that’s the least of your problems. <\/span>You have to get out of this relationship. <\/span>You need to understand that he is a complicated person, a person who is with his ex-wife, with other women and with you.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

If you don’t believe him, if you suspect his character, you shouldn’t even have moved in with him and slept with him. <\/span>Being the girlfriend of a man who is not yet divorced is wrong; <\/span>living with him and thinking he should be faithful to you and respect you is even more wrong. <\/span>Do <\/span>yourself <\/span><\/span>a huge favor : get out of that relationship. <\/span><\/span><\/a>If you’re at his house, get your things and go back where you came from. <\/span>If he was the one who went to your house, pack his things and tell him to go wherever he wants. <\/span>Stay calm. <\/span>He’ll find somewhere to stay. <\/span>You can be sure.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Then take care of yourself, your heart and your mind because you are bad. <\/span>You have accepted from him a handout of attention and affection, if you receive any, and you don’t see the value it has. <\/span>To learn more, join the <\/span><\/span>Therapy of Love<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a> . <\/span>Every Thursday at the <\/span><\/span>Rainbow Theater<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a> .<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“Moro h\u00e1 um ano com o meu namorado e ele ainda n\u00e3o se divorciou, o que causa muitas brigas entre n\u00f3s.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"give_campaign_id":0,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[683,657],"tags":[3421,1492],"class_list":["post-84436","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-internacional-news","category-noticias","tag-com-outras-mulheres","tag-um-grande-favor"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uckg.org\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84436","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uckg.org\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uckg.org\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uckg.org\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uckg.org\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=84436"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.uckg.org\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84436\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":105400,"href":"https:\/\/www.uckg.org\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/84436\/revisions\/105400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.uckg.org\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=84436"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uckg.org\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=84436"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.uckg.org\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=84436"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}