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Singles top question - part 2
We’ve looked at the most important characteristic which makes a person a suitable partner. First he/she must be a man/woman of God. Secondly, he/she must make a strong and positive impact on your life. Often, people who have been on their own for quite some time accept just anyone as a partner, in an attempt to end their loneliness, even though that partner is a bad influence on their lives. This is totally wrong and a recipe for disaster. A suitable partner is someone that will bring balance to your life, offering much more than the physical presence of someone by your side. Many single people have lost their self confidence so a suitable partner will immediately help them recover this. The character, the faith or the positive attitude that a partner has, will help you to rediscover yourself and be happy. Your dreams, plans and visions for the future will not be watered down when you find the right person. In fact, you will find greater strength and a companion who will progress together with you in the right direction. "A suitable partner is someone that will bring a balance to your life." Third in importance, comes attractiveness. A suitable partner is attractive to you. Attractiveness is not limited to looks. There are many elements to a person's attractiveness. It could be that they make you laugh, that they are gentle, or caring, or have a good heart. The bottom line is, you must be able to look at that person and imagine spending the rest of your life by their side. If you can’t, it is better not to even start anything. Because attractiveness is much more than simple good looks, it may be that you’ve ruled out some suitable people around you because they don't look like models. It is advisable that you take another look, and if you notice someone that catches your attention but doesn’t look perfect, consider getting closer to him/her so that they can reveal their true self and, who knows, all of a sudden they may become extremely attractive. So, let’s just recap. A suitable partner must:
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‘Pastor, how do I know if someone is a suitable partner for me?’ - This is the question that we started answering last week. 