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I've been living with my in laws for three years now and they keep on interfering with my life. At times, I don't feel like I'm in control because whatever I say needs to meet their approval to be implemented. I'm fed up with this situation. What should I do?

To be honest with you, the solution is to have your own house. The bottom line is, that you are not in control because it is not your place; you've been married for three years now and it is time for you to have your own place. When this happens, the opportunity will arise for your spouse to be moulded to make the relationship work and external influences will not be as prevalent as they have been to date. I don't know what your financial situation may be at the moment but this is where you need to focus your attention now.

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